Finally.
I think it is hard to write the movie of our lives. There are so many characters involved, so many twists and turns to manage…….but we CAN write the character
we want to play in our movie and in the movies of others. We can decide how we would like to be cast.
And it is important to take the time to do this.
Who do you want to be? The rag doll, the lost girl, the Princess, the Wench, the Queen, the wicked step sister, the poet, the seeker, the starving artist, the whore,
the star., the failure, the success. the crazy girl, the healer……. Decide and then write out all the characteristics of that role- and consider all the things that
character will go through in the movie. Pick for yourself a character who’s life you care to experience.
Many of us are in rag doll, lost girl, whore, starving artist mode and are experiencing the terrible ups and downs that those characters generally experience. You
don’t have to go there. You don’t need to be the rag doll girl. Or the girl who never gets the guy. Or the girl who always is in dream mode and never in receive mode.
No.
You can play the other parts if you will only study the characteristics of those women. How does a star behave. What does she expect from herself and others.
How does a princess behave- a queen-a success, a healer, etc.. what are their boundaries for others and how do they treat the world around them. What sorts of
activities do they engage in? How do they speak? And what experiences do these roles generally attract– do you want them?
Are you perhaps in a role that really doesn’t suit you?
More than likely you didn’t do your research well enough and you have fallen into patterns of behavior that
have taken you down the road of experiences you really don’t want. The Rag Doll usually has terrible days and nights with men who mistreat her, and the whore is
well paid and often desired, but lacks love and true intimacy and the starving artist is always in a condition of yearning- or hoping- and of never really having
reward for their work. Don’t ever say you are a struggling actress, or that you aspire to be a novelist. You ARE what you WANT to be. You are an actress, you are a novelist,
film maker, teacher, whatever you say you are.
Today, you have the power to write your own role- you can be what ever woman you want.
Write it down. And then enter the world as her. Watch your experiences start to change- watch all your relationships shift to accommodate who you really are…….
and get verbal about it. You tell everyone in your world how you now need to be treated.

Takes courage and I know you have it.
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Take off the mask of “the less than girl ” and let the world know just how great you are.